In my opinion ..Hate is a strong word.
It's kinda bad when you already determined in hating things / somebody forever.
It's totally true when people says 'You'll only tend to regret / cherish when you lose it'.
Example - if you have been hating this particular thing / person for a long
time,and when its no longer there .. you may start to feel empty / regret .(Esp someone close)
So how long can you hate somebody & what's there to hate when he/she/it is gone?
I think that most people out there starts to hate, when somebody else takes away something precious from them.
Well , we cannot blame these people for hating if they had lost a person or thing that's like a treasure to them.
And also , I think that this is then a much more right reason to hate.
How will you feel if you've lost your somebody impt all of a sudden?
On the other hand ,
how many times or how many of us knew that if we say 'I hate you.' to somebody close or even a stranger to us,
would hurt or affect them ?
Everyone can make a choice and have choices.
We should not blame this or that person for making a decision that we might not agree with.
Anyhow or anyway, not everything in life will go according to what we've been planning or hoping.
Added on, anything that happens .. really do have good and bad advantages.
It depends how you face / sees it .
Example :
It's funny when some of us says we HATE veggies.
The right word should be DISLIKE, dont you think so?
Veggies are there for good causes , like giving us sufficient vitamins
or even helping us to build a better immune system.
So what super bad or cruel things have it done to us ? I dont see any, seriously.
If you dislike it , just keep it away or dont eat it right ?
Why do we have to say 'I HATE VEGGIES.' ?
The word 'HATE' is not meant for simple things like this.
I wish I will never need to hate anybody/things in the years to come.
(I'm not hating anything/anyone now, serious. I will only 'dislike'.)
& I wont be using the word 'hate' from now onwards , it should be 'dislike' that I'm using.
Anyway, what do we gain from hating things / people ? Hmmm.
& No, I dont hate my family , my close friendz , my friendz , schoolmates , classmates or even strangers, currently.
It's so much more better without hatred in this world :)
